![]() ![]() (When I first saw the man who would become my husband, my exact thoughts were, “that’s the kind of guy I could go for.” And then I talked to him, and the actual attraction to him grew quickly. Chemistry is usually instantaneous-although not always. When you meet someone with who you have chemistry, there is physical awareness, of course, but also a rapport, comfort instead of awkwardness, and an ease of communication, all of which build and begin to solidify a relationship. With only one exception, all dates in which I had chemistry resulted in long term relationships-and one in marriage. Between the ages of 18 and 33, I dated a lot, but most ended at the first date because of a lack of chemistry. At least initially, chemistry is a temporary, albeit powerful attractant. Some define chemistry as a “spark.” I think of it as “glue” that bonds two people together until they can get to know each other in a deeper way and discover if true compatibility exists. ![]()
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